{"id":146,"date":"2021-02-01T08:52:28","date_gmt":"2021-02-01T07:52:28","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/anthropos-coaching.com\/blog\/?p=146"},"modified":"2021-02-02T19:56:14","modified_gmt":"2021-02-02T18:56:14","slug":"le-lien-dessine-le-lieu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/anthropos-coaching.com\/blog\/?p=146","title":{"rendered":"Le lien dessine le lieu"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Dans la culture nomade, <span style=\"color:#f49522\" class=\"has-inline-color\"><strong><em>le lien dessine le lieu<\/em>.<\/strong><\/span><br>Autrement dit, le \u00ab&nbsp;chez nous&nbsp;\u00bb ne d\u00e9pend pas d\u2019un lieu mais de <strong><em><span style=\"color:#f49522\" class=\"has-inline-color\">l\u2019intensit\u00e9 des liens entre les uns et les autres<\/span><\/em><\/strong> (membres de la famille, du clan, du Peuple).<br><br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sfcoach.org\/qui-sommes-nous\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Soci\u00e9t\u00e9 fran\u00e7aise de Coaching<\/a> f\u00eate cette ann\u00e9e ses 25 ans autour de la th\u00e9matique du lien.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Le premier \u00ab&nbsp;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.sfcoach.org\/symposium-sfcoach-le-temps-du-lien\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">temps du lien<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.sfcoach.org\/symposium-sfcoach-le-temps-du-lien\">&nbsp;<\/a>\u00bb s\u2019est ouvert \u00e0 distance, via zoom, le 21 janvier matin, autour des notions de distance, pr\u00e9sence\u2026 Se tenir \u00ab&nbsp;\u00e0 bonne&nbsp;\u00bb distance&nbsp;du coach\u00e9, installer puis ancrer le lien par \u00e9cran ou t\u00e9l\u00e9phone interpos\u00e9\u2026&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong><em><span style=\"color:#f49522\" class=\"has-inline-color\">Se tenir \u00ab&nbsp;\u00e0 bonne&nbsp;\u00bb distance<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>OK, mais laquelle, s\u2019interroge&nbsp; <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sfcoach.org\/coach\/MIGAIROU\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Daniel Migairou<\/a>, poursuivant sur le contresens qui consiste \u00e0 opposer distance (apparent\u00e9e \u00e0 \u00ab&nbsp;absence&nbsp;\u00bb) et pr\u00e9sence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Et si \u00ab&nbsp;\u00eatre&nbsp;\u00bb en (pleine) pr\u00e9sence, nous ramenait \u00e0 la relation coach-coach\u00e9, \u00e0 ce face \u00e0 face bienveillant, ni dessus ni dessous, simplement devant, \u00e0 hauteur d\u2019Autre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La bonne distance serait donc \u00ab \u00e9cart&nbsp;\u00bb et \u00ab&nbsp;entre \u00bb (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.cairn.info\/revue-cahiers-de-gestalt-therapie-2017-1-page-185.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Fran\u00e7ois Jullien<\/a>) qui permet d\u2019ouvrir le chemin vers l\u2019Autre.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong><span style=\"color:#f49522\" class=\"has-inline-color\">Ancrer le lien \u00e0 distance<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Comment habiter la relation \u00e0 distance&nbsp;sans le ressenti physique, sensoriel, kinesth\u00e9sique, sans la perception du souffle de la respiration&nbsp;?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Comment \u00ab&nbsp;l\u2019instant critique&nbsp;\u00bb, ce moment de basculement dans l\u2019accompagnement, peut-il se d\u00e9ployer \u00e0 distance, s\u2019interroge <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sfcoach.org\/coach\/annie-cottet\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Annie Cottet.<\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Et si, \u00e0 distance, le jaillissement se manifestait par l\u2019acc\u00e9l\u00e9ration du d\u00e9bit, l\u2019intensit\u00e9 de la parole, l\u2019avanc\u00e9e du corps vers la cam\u00e9ra, la gestuelle des mains, le mouvement des yeux, les mots utilis\u00e9s, tant\u00f4t murmur\u00e9s, bredouill\u00e9s, jet\u00e9s&nbsp;?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Dans certains cas, il arrive que la distance\u2026 rapproche, en permettant de poser, d\u00e9poser, dans un cadre familier, souvent avec chat et caf\u00e9\/th\u00e9 \u00e0 port\u00e9e de main.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><strong><span style=\"color:#f49522\" class=\"has-inline-color\">La voix ouvre la voie<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>La musique qui \u00ab&nbsp;exprime ce qui ne peut \u00eatre dit et ce sur quoi il est impossible de rester silencieux&nbsp;\u00bb (Victor Hugo), r\u00e9pare les \u00e2mes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Par t\u00e9l\u00e9phone, la musique de la voix nourrit le lien et ouvre la voie du changement.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Autrement dit, dans le m\u00eame espace (int\u00e9rieur ou ext\u00e9rieur) ou \u00e0 distance (par \u00e9cran ou t\u00e9l\u00e9phone interpos\u00e9), <strong><em><span style=\"color:#f49522\" class=\"has-inline-color\">c\u2019est au Coach\u00e9 de manifester sa pr\u00e9f\u00e9rence et au Coach de \u2026 s\u2019ajuster&nbsp;\ud83d\ude09<\/span><\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<div class='align'>  <div class=\"simplesocialbuttons simplesocial-simple-icons simplesocialbuttons_inline 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